These three revolutions that mark the most important change in
the history of humanity, in so far as people’s lifestyle is
concerned, have been poorly studied. Consequently, sexuality,
which should be one of the pillars in the formation given by the
educational system, has been marginalized, and oftentimes done
in a frivolous and dangerous manner.
The understanding of shared sexuality as a genuine means of
social communication is one of the principal characteristics of
the Program B.A.S.E. FOR EDUCATORS. The problem is that if sex
is not understood as a means of communication, its normative
character (that sex has rules attached to it) can only be
understood and accepted with difficulty.
The norms of sex are justified only when sex is seen for what it
is: a social act. All social acts are legitimized on the basis
of implicit social norms. This is seen when we talk about the
means of communication. Language has its rules. Fashion and
even war have their rules. Without rules, living together would
be impossible. Norms make communication possible, that is, our
being able to relate to the others, enabling the integration of
a person into society and the union of society into one nation.
To
understand sex as a communication among equals excludes
individualism, that is, sex as a manifestation of the dominion
of one person over another, or as a remedy to one’s social
rejection. It includes something that in our society is slowly
being devaluated so much so that it is almost extinct: time.
The social character of sex is also shown in its diachronicity.
Sex is a communication which is synchronic (in time) as well as
diachronic (through time). The best example of the synchronic
dimension of communication of a sexual character is the family
and the distinction that exists in the familiar relationship
among relatives as compared to those who are not relatives. The
sex of my parents connects me with my siblings in a very special
way. On the other hand, the best example of the diachronic
dimension of communication of a sexual character is the
succession of generations. Sex makes it possible for social
testimony to be passed on from one generation to another. This
is of capital importance.
At
the start of the academic year and in the welcome address to the
students, some university professors feel that they have an
obligation to express their gratitude. Indeed, students make
the professor view his retirement with certain optimism. After
all, they are the ones who will pay for his pension.
Immediately after and to the perplexity of the general public,
these same professors express their condolences. Their students
in many countries will not have anyone to pay their pension if
things remain the way they are. Obviously, there is here a lack
of diachronic communication between two successive social
generations.
Diachronic communication has been irresponsibly separated from
sex lately and this exacts a very high social price. Our
culture tends to look the other way when it comes to almost all
actions with deferred effects, the most dramatic example of
which is nuclear energy which solves the energy problem by
providing a cheap source of energy today but produces
radioactive waste products which could be dangerous during
thousands of years.
This also happens with sex. The nine months of gestation or the
complications of a disease or of sexual trauma are considered to
have nothing to do with an act which is been increasingly
difficult to contextualize in time, as if it never had
consequences or after effects.